Song of Solomon is saying a brief dialogue between a bridegroom and bride. According to tradition, it is attributed to Solomon, and a Szulamitce ( Song 7:1). I got interested in the attitude of a future husband. Well, he, as a single man, not looking for love, not pushing for the marriage or relationship on the strength, but is waiting for his time when he meets the only one:
"I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, why should wake up from sleep on what to awaken the beloved, until he wants alone? " (Song 8:4 )
is I think from a Christian point of view of attitude as the most appropriate. Today, from the perspective of a young man, nice to have a girlfriend / boyfriend. This is due to the incredible pleasure and satisfaction. Today, the compound "walking" with each other is very often synonymous with sex, which lets face it, turns us all. If it was disgusting porn industry is an industry, not zarabiałby billion dollars annually. And how does the second half, maybe a wife it will not be in the future, but the erotic sensations first class. Well, like it is not so? Sure, not everyone thought so, fortunately, but the vast majority already so, so do not be's face. Of course, it is also an emotional aspect, not everyone is erotomaniac, and just wants to have a boyfriend / girlfriend to snuggle up and talk and just have a nice time. The reasons vary, but usually end up on one thing: finding a partner on the stubborn.
should not be so. I understand it all, I also once had on the pressure, now I do not have and do not look at things like that. God expects us that we trust him that he entrust our affairs, our life. Choice of partner should not be at our discretion only God, so why to him it does not pay? I understand that sometimes the answer we will wait, and no patient has to be terribly frustrating, but God is the one that says how to be and when it should be. And if you do not give us this desired partner, that is to say that it is not ripe for a lasting relationship and a few more things we need to learn. We have some things to sort out in my head. All time must persevere in prayer, read Scripture, where there are "guidelines" regarding marriage and teach them. It is not worth looking at others that have a super girl, super cars and homes, but do not copy the pattern of this world, because a big house and expensive car is a thing that everyone without exception to happy. My first (especially the Mercedes S-class, house 300m2 with garden of 1 ha.) But this is not an end in itself in my life, and for the people of the world's wealth and szpan takowymi are
"Happy is the man who walks not in the counsel of the wicked, not the way of sinners and sit in the seat of scoffers, But his delight is in the law of the Lord, the His law he meditates day and night " (Ps 1:1-2 )
Marriage is not just a sex experience is the recognition, support, conversation and, above all, love. It is this and other matters to trust God. We promise that there remain ourselves and if we ask God for a husband / wife, then surely we will not be for our God 'exposed to the wind'.
Sex is a form of conjugal love, therefore, whether Christian or not girls should be withheld from those 'excesses' of marriage. Yes, I know it sounds kuriozalnie, but I believe it, that God's requirement in this regard from the first moments of humanity was the same and not changing?
Sex is a form of conjugal love, therefore, whether Christian or not girls should be withheld from those 'excesses' of marriage. Yes, I know it sounds kuriozalnie, but I believe it, that God's requirement in this regard from the first moments of humanity was the same and not changing?